Episode 9 Pornography Addiction: Keeping the Marriage Together After Infidelity

Logan Hufford shares his story of recovery from sexual addiction and the dark times he experienced. He describes how his addiction progressed from pornography to sexual affairs and hiring prostitutes, despite being married and having a family. Logan emphasizes that his addiction was not a result of childhood trauma, but rather a personal choice to chase after highs. He discusses the impact of his addiction on his wife and the manipulation and gaslighting he engaged in. Logan's turning point came when his wife gave him an ultimatum and he joined a recovery program. It took time for him to gain traction and find success in his sobriety. Logan shares his experience of overcoming sexual addiction and the journey of recovery. He reflects on the early stages of his sobriety and the temptation he faced. Over time, he learned that he didn't have to give in to the addiction and retrained his brain. He no longer identifies as a sex addict in bondage but as someone who is free from sexual addiction. Logan and his wife are actively involved in recovery programs and lead support groups. They are passionate about sharing their story and helping others find healing.

Check out Logan @no.longer.in.bondage

https://www.prodigalsofalaska.com

or check out his wife, Carrie --

prodigalsinfo@creeksideak.com

 

Takeaways

• Sexual addiction can occur without a history of childhood trauma and can be a result of personal choices to chase after highs.
• Addiction can lead to manipulation, gaslighting, and a double life, causing harm to oneself and loved ones.
• Recovery from sexual addiction requires commitment, hard work, and a support system that holds individuals accountable.
• Sobriety from sexual addiction means abstaining from pornography, masturbation, and inappropriate sexual encounters.
• Gaining traction and finding success in recovery takes time and involves a shift in mindset and behavior. Recovery is a journey that requires hard work and the use of tools.
• White-knuckling is a basic tool in early recovery, but it should not be relied on long-term.
• As recovery progresses, what is considered acceptable changes, and sacrifices are made for a healthier life.
• It is important for couples to work together in recovery and for spouses to have their own support groups.
• Vulnerability and transparency are crucial in rebuilding relationships and creating a new, healthy marriage.
• There is a need for more awareness and support for partners of individuals struggling with sexual addiction.
• Logan and his wife are passionate about sharing their story and helping others find healing.
• Logan is open to being a resource for those seeking help and can provide guidance and support.

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